Philip Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield

You must look into people as well as at them.

Whatever is worth doing at all is worth doing well.

Sex: the pleasure is momentary, the position ridiculous, and the expense damnable.

It took me realizing that a broken heart has never actually killed anyone to find the courage to ask for what I want, in just about every situation. That was part of my own growing up.

I studied international relations and economics at the University of Virginia. I paid my way by working as a bartender in the summer and at three part-time jobs during the year.